Saturday, October 15, 2011

Weekly Jaunts to the Farmers’ Market


Every Friday morning, my neighbour and I shop at our local farmers’ market.

It takes me back to my childhood when my mother and I went to the huge market to buy fresh produce, meat and fish. The grocery was for staples like rice and flour. We knew the produce was pulled from the soil or picked the day before or early that morning.  I loved to see the displays: piles of carrots, okras, beets, beans, bunches of scallions, thyme and marjoram, hot peppers, limes, golden apples, bananas, plantains, huge avocados, breadfruit, yams, eddoes, cassava, oh I could go on.
Brussels Sprouts
Farmers’ markets use this simple way of displaying our food. No well-scrubbed produce wrapped in plastic with all outer leaves and roots trimmed. These displays are pleasing to the eye and remind us of what our food really looks like.

If I’m going to shop at the farmers’ market, I want real farmers not the wannabes who show up with onions in bags declaring, Product of the U.S.A. or with cucumbers wrapped tightly in plastic or with stickers on the peppers or with products out of season locally. These are food terminal farmers and I bypass them. Plus anyone who puts soft-skinned fruit, heavier than berries, in those slotted plastic containers that damage the fruit unlucky to be on the bottom, need to attend farming 101 on how to handle delicate fruit.  I want the real thing, otherwise I might as well go the supermarket.

Carrots from Farmers' Market
Who can resist perfectly formed nectarines or blushing peaches or crisp pears? The tomatoes, oh the tomatoes that taste as tomatoes should.  Green beans,broccoli and brussels sprouts. Carrots, beets and potatoes covered in dirt. Jams and jellies that remind you of homemade. The honey man.  Corn that I will cook in their husks.  Lettuces of all types with bits of dirt still clinging to the leaves and celery, cabbage with their outer leaves. The pie lady where a plum donut was my treat, the melon stall where I tasted and bought my first yellow watermelon. The varieties of squash and pumpkins not found in stores, the deli couple from whom I bought sausages, the poultry/egg man.  Recently, it`s been cider I can`t go home without and the market was the first place I ever saw a fresh hazelnut (looks like an interesting insect); the things we learn.

I also love to see buyers lugging bushel baskets and big bags of tomatoes and imaging the lovely sauces being made.  Note to self: Next year, start making friends in the market.

It’s interesting how much money I spend at the market on a weekly basis that I would never spend in the store. Can’t resist all that glorious freshness. If you think about it, the farmers` market is not the place for an empty-nester, single lady to shop but I buy anyway and make the most of my purchases. My girls appreciate the mid-week meals they can take to their homes.

Inspired by the fresh produce in the market, I did something I`ve not done in years, I canned or maybe nowadays it`s jarred. I made pickles (cukes & mushrooms), two types of plum jam (golden and purple) and will be making hot pepper jelly in a day or so.  Of course, one jar of each item is best put aside for testing purposes.

Only two more weeks left but I have my jars of deliciousness to tide me over to spring, if they last that long, 

Will keep you posted.

Friday, October 14, 2011

In Our Parents Stead


Have you ever attended a family event, took a look around and suddenly realized you’ve hit the peak and you are on the way down the other side of that mountain called aging? When did this inevitable decent begin?

I recently attended a cousin’s wedding. Let me clarify that statement; the wedding of my first cousin’s daughter.  At such functions we see family members we haven’t seen, well, since the last family gathering, be it a joyous or sad occasion. After the hugs, kisses and back pats, getting one of my earrings caught in someone’s shawl, you know, the usual greetings, I looked around at my cousins and friends; and it dawned on me and to be honest, not for the first time, but it really banged into my brain with a vengeance that we have replaced our parents.

Was it just a few years ago we were attending parties and having a fabulous time, eating our “back home” food and dancing to hot, hot music? Any kids we had were at home with a sitter or not yet a gleam in anyone’s eye. We were stylish, we were fresh, there wasn’t a grey hair in sight, (well even now not so much), we were about a quarter of the way up that mountain and I’m sure thought this will be the position in which we will remain. We will never be like our parents who had become staid.

Life has a way of setting our priorities. School concerts, dance and music lessons, guides and choir performances replaced many of our own social activities. Of course we still went to the occasional party but they were no longer the frenetic showcases of our youth. Being on parade no longer was as appealing and family get-togethers were a bit sedate.  Backyard barbeques became the go to thing.  Any dancing occurred as the older cousins and their spouses started hitting milestone birthdays and throwing parties to celebrate and as their children started to marry, exactly as our parents did when we were young.

I looked around the wedding reception at the vanguard of older cousins all the way back to the younger ones, sitting and chatting around the tables. On the dance floor were their younger children and grandchildren. We had replaced our parents, so like it or not, we are now standing on the side of the mountain where they once stood. How about we dance just a little bit more cause life rolls on just too quickly.

Will keep you posted.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

My Fall Garden

It’s finally raining. Cold drizzles after a week of summer-like weather that saw shorts, capris, sun dresses and sandals back in vogue after being put away for warmer togs. Patios were back in business and people-watching was the thing to do again. My family piled their plates high and ate Thanksgiving dinner on our patio and sat out, having fun, late into the night with the help of citronella candles, to annoy the bugs, retrieved from storage.

The patio chair cushions have now been put away along with the garden art. The last of the habanero peppers have been picked. The bushes have been trimmed, vines pulled down from the walls and fences, the annuals have been pulled and will become compost. The urns in the front of the house are now sporting yellow mums. Spring bulbs have been planted, perennials divided and replanted in different areas and the grass, fertilized and reseeded.   The birdbath remains through all seasons and the pond spitter will be unplugged when the cold weather settles in.

Yellow-tinged Hosta
Yet, I gaze out at my garden and see the beauty of this wondrous season, autumn. I see the black soil where a few weeks ago plants were blooming. I see the fence, cleared of this year’s trumpet vine and now ready for regrowth in the spring. I look at the bare walls were ivy and more vines grew; where tiny birds roosted at night. I look at the plants that come into their glory at this time of year: the fall asters, the absolutely gorgeous, will soon be living-up-to-its-name, burning bush, the scraggly mum that is being crowded out of its space but continues to sprawl across the grass in its pink glory, yellow tinged hostas and surprisingly, a brave Shasta daisy, all alone on its bush.

This is my favourite season. I love the change of pace, the cooler temperatures, the bittersweet feel of the garden. Yes, leaves are starting to fall, foliage is dying back but underneath the soil, there’s work in progress for that promise of renewal that never disappoints; the promise of spring.

Will keep you posted.


Monday, October 3, 2011

Their Sexual Orientation is None of Your Business

I will never understand people`s obsession with the sexual orientation of others. Why the concern about whose plumbing goes where?

What impels someone to make a concerted effort to preach, protest, denigrate or even assault another person because that person is attracted to their own sex? It’s madness. Imagine rising each day with hatred in your heart and a compulsion to tell gays they are going straight to hell for their “lifestyle”. Did you choose your sexual orientation? Well, neither did they.

It is disturbing to hear Blacks speak offensively about gays and rail  against gay marriage. Remember when you were fighting for your civil rights? Was not too long ago and now you think it is right to deny others their rights. Enlighten me as to why a significant number of this world`s population should not have all the rights and benefits accorded to others. It seems in most parts of the world, gays are under constant threat of beatings and even death. In 2009, an article in Time asked if Jamaica is: The Most Homophobic Place on Earth?  Law makers in Uganda tried to enact an anti-gay law that could see the death penalty for some actsThankfully, it failed.

Not An Option
You may wish to cite the Bible as proof being gay is wrong. If you go this route, I suggest you read all the laws appearing with the one you like to quote and ask yourself if one of God`s laws is to be obeyed, why not obey them all? I am sure you would not want to be labelled a hypocrite who practises buffet Christianity.

How will allowing gay people to marry destroy traditional marriage? You know, the whiz-bang job being done by straight people with no divorce, no separation, no re-marriage; just a shining example for gays to follow. I have never figured this one out.

To those in the pulpit, you embarrass yourselves by preaching hate instead of love, compassion and understanding.  Shaming gay congregants to go against their true self never ends well. Gay adults deserve to be free and not on the down low while in marriages to keep the façade that they are straight. Let people be who they are. To parents who ridicule, abuse and wash their hands of their children, what do you think will happen to your gay teens when they hit the streets? These children belong in the safety of their families. Loving them would be so much easier for all.

I have gay relatives and friends and we interact in the same way as my straight relatives and friends. We are here on this earth for such a short time, it should be better spent understanding and caring about each other than in creating pain. Live and let live is a nice attitude to cultivate.

Christians, try to be more like the compassionate Jesus of the gospels and less like the vengeful God of the Old Testament. Remember what Mahatma Gandhi said, “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.“                                                                            

Will keep you posted.